Early detection and early treatment of affair influenza!
Exposure-Affair “Symptoms” If you say that the man you love is carrying you fiercely with another MM, and has not offered to break up with you, then he can only cover up, cover up, lie, and lie.
But no matter how seamless he did, there would be clues.
You don’t need to look at it, you can use a little wisdom to find out if he really derailed you.
Derailment phenomenon 1: After the sudden increase in derailment, in order to please the Iraqi people, it is necessary to eat candlelight dinners, send roses, and drink coffee, in order to reflect the gentlemanliness and romance of a man.
What is romance?
It is to slowly waste the numbers on a credit card with a girl, so that it changes from less to more.
This is a compulsory course for men in love field, small point, this point can’t be overcome in a small way, how can a girl willingly be romantic with you?
Why do people play a love game with your husband and wife without ending and fame?
When it comes to girls, houses, and sports cars with high material requirements, one cannot be less.
In order to keep the wind and snow, men had to desperately save money for private housing.
In the past, the money to be generous to be my wife will now continue to be handed to her, but how unwilling?
Only he knew it.
If a man does not have extra income, he will usually use various excuses to not give his wife his wages in full; if he has extra income, he will not be as stupid as before-no penny will be left to his wife.
Some men even quit smoking and drinking.
Derailment phenomenon 2: Men who have an affair often work overtime to spend time with their lover outside of work, appreciate the ecstasy and beauty of Wen Xiang nephrite, naturally can not go home with his wife on time.
Of course his wife would call, text, and ask a man why he didn’t go home so late, with whom.
Men usually answer without saying: overtime.
At first, his wife distressed and asked: remember to eat dinner at work.
However, the more times he passed overtime, his wife became suspicious.
The man will immediately express his grievances: I work so hard and work overtime, is it not for you and your child to live a better life?
Otherwise, I will accompany you every day at home, you will make money to feed me!
Most wives have a sense of blame when they hear a man saying that they have misunderstood her husband.
The man saw his wife dismiss the idea of doubting him, and went home to accompany his wife honestly a few times, coaxed her into exultation, and continued to “overtime” outside.
Derailment phenomenon 3: Too much entertainment. In the past few years, men with a little ability like to entertain outside.
As far as entertainment to a man is concerned, it is decent and beautiful. It seems that without entertainment, it is not enough to prove a man’s ability, and it is not enough to prove that his career is successful.
Women, for the most part, like men who have the ability to entertain.
Such a man is likely to make money and bring enough material guarantee to her and her child’s life.
As a result, smart men will be dressed in entertaining robes and develop extramarital affairs outside the house.
When his wife began to resent that he kept entertaining outside every night, the reason of the man was better than anyone: You thought I was willing to do so, and then take the elder brother-wife’s brother as an example to explain that every day after workGoing home, less than 1,000 yuan a month, always looking for land to buy daily necessities, eating clothes, shrinking food, or not enough money for the child to go to college, his wife scolded him every day.
Do you want me to be that kind of man?
If you wish, I will stay at home honestly after work starting tomorrow, cooking for you, simmering dishes and doing laundry.
As soon as the wife heard it, there was no power immediately. Before hanging up the phone, she had to gently tell the man: eat more vegetables and drink less.
The man took the line, that joy, with a little wisdom to get the wife’s heart.
Derailment phenomenon 4: Absent-mindedness when I return home, I feel restless no matter what I do, especially sensitive to the phone ringing, and refuse to answer the phone in front of my wife. If the wife asks him anything, he will deny it with arrogance-IWhat can happen
Are you doubting me?
If this happens, I can tell you with certainty that he is outside and has “the situation”.
As the old saying goes, a selfless heart is wide in the heart. A man who has no secrets outside will be open to all the telephones at home, will not be absent-minded, and will not be arrogant towards his wife.
Derailment phenomenon five: Men who are too lazy to have sex also have a period of physical reversal. This is normal, but only a few times.Excluding these days, if he is a physiologically normal man, if he is always absent in bed, he is indifferent to all your hints. For example, before every time you had sex, you all had “foreplay” but suddenly canceled it.He has no response to your body language and affectionate charming eyes.
Even if it’s sex, it’s a routine business, and it’s just a matter of coping, without passion.
At this point, it’s time to be vigilant. Men’s derailment often starts with being tired of his wife’s body.
The seven-year itch of marriage is mostly the itch of sex.
When fatigue stress occurs in sex, it is also the beginning of marriage fatigue.
At this time, men will deliberately or unintentionally look for women who can bring passion to themselves.
Derailment phenomenon 6: When a friend comes out to prove that he is an innocent man who returns late or often does not return late and is suspected by his wife, his buddies often volunteer to stand up and clarify the fact for him: that day, he was with usXunzi, you can rest assured that my elder brother is not that kind of person, and I can testify.
And he promised that even if the big brother wants to derail, our buddies will not spare him and marry your virtuous sister-in-law. If he is unsatisfied and dare to distort other women, he will see how we repair him.
In fact, all of his buddies are the same fox friends and dog friends as he is. People say that things are grouped together, and people are grouped. This is absolutely true.
Men spend their time outside and are afraid of fire in the backyard. The most common trick is to push these fox friends and dog friends as a shield. Let his wife believe that although he returns to zero every night, he is absolutely guarded by his wife!
Although the above situations can not 100% prove that your husband is definitely having an affair, but if the above 6 phenomena are available, it means that your marriage is in a sub-health state. As a wife, you must pay special attention to how to eliminate you.The sub-healthy state in marriage, how to restore the husband’s gradual weakening of emotions and hearts, and how to get the marriage into the second honeymoon period, is what you must do.